From the Head’s Desk: Positive Attention

A few years ago, one of our students spoke at 8th grade rite of passage about how MacDuffie had changed his perspective. This student said that he had been used to getting attention from his negative behavior. By attending MacDuffie, he was able to reinvent himself and work to get attention from the positive things that he did. He moved away from negative, cynical comments and focused on his own personal development. I was quite impressed by this fellow’s mature speech. Of course, when I mentioned it to him last week, he stated that he had no recollection of giving the speech at all! That’s fine by me, because his actions speak louder than words; he now serves on our Judiciary Council and is impressive on our Mock Trial and As Schools Match Wits teams. He has continued to choose the positive path and is recognized often for those choices.

Recently, I took the opportunity to address our freshman class during their class meeting. The topic was behavior, and I used the story of the boy and his changed perspective. I challenged our freshmen to choose the correct path–to be recognized for their positive contributions–and to encourage others to do the same. Some of our 9th grade teachers picked up this thread of conversation in their classes. I would like to encourage you to have this conversation at home with your own child, whether they are a freshman or not.

Sincerely,

Steve Griffin, Head of School